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How To Keep Him Interested- Should You "Play Hard To Get"?

In this video I offer some practical tips for increasing desire and attraction once you started dating someone. Attract the guy you want in an authentic way.

Most women think that creating desire and attraction in the beginning of dating has to do with maintaining a chase. I don't really like this idea because it implies that you never actually get to be with the person! It sounds pretty exhausting to be constantly running away from the person you like. 

What I teach women instead is how important it is to be in alignment with the man you are dating. 

Most women lose the attraction of the man they are dating because they are out of alignment with him.

Here are some tips to maintain his interest without game playing:

1.) Meet him where he is at. 

You may have heard of the idea of a man investing in you and the relationship between you. It's very important to know what exactly constitutes an investment. 

There are different levels of investment.

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Slow Down To Speed Things Up In Dating

This article is based on podcast episode #36: Slow Down To Speed Things up on the Women's Dating And Confidence Podcast.

The most attractive traits that you can exhibit to men are confidence, certainty, and just a general feeling of being relaxed. 

On the other hand, the least attractive traits are: desperation, insecurity, and feeling scarce. 

When you feel scarce you feel like this opportunity is a once and a lifetime opportunity. When you feel insecure you worry that you won’t be able to maintain his interest. When you feel desperate you feel like you have to HURRY. 

This combo of feelings causes you to try and speed things up in the beginning of the relationship and make things as secure as possible with the guy you are dating. 

At first, it may seem like you are just so caught up in the romance of it all, but more often than not, if your actions are coming from that fearful place, the relationship will fizzle out just as abruptly as it started. 


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Copy & Paste Texts For When He Is Pulling Away Or Acting Flaky

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