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The #1 Skill Needed To Avoid Situationships

If you’re in a situationship you might feel as though it was created by accident. It feels like one thing led to another and now it’s too late to do anything about it.

You find yourself confused about why you’re in a situationship when that wasn't really what you were looking for in the first place.

When you don't have the confidence to actually create what you want, it feels like you're just on this inevitable path towards the situationship that you never signed up for.

Even though situationships feel accidental, they're actually completely within our control to create or not to create.

If you are in a situationship, it's always because you created that result.

We make a daily choice of whether we stay in a relationship, whether we speak up about what we really want, and whether we keep investing in a connection.

Obviously, ending a situationship is easier said than done, right?

It's super uncomfortable to speak up about what we want.

And speaking up is the main...

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Going To Other People's Weddings

Last week, one of my clients was telling me about how she has been going to a lot of weddings this summer.

She has been feeling sad when she’s there because everybody else seems to be coupled up.

I suggested to her a few new ways she could think about being at other people’s weddings.

You can think about the experience of going to weddings differently by seeing examples of what's possible all around you.

The environment that we're in can have a big influence on what we see as possible for ourselves. A big limitation to believing in what we want to create is not seeing examples of it.

You could think of weddings as a mastermind meeting where it's actually a good thing to be around people who have something that you aspire to have.

I joined a business mastermind and it was very uncomfortable at first because at least 50% of the people in the mastermind were more successful than me.

But I also had to remind myself that that was part of why I joined that group. I knew...

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Finding Your "Blue Marble"

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Dating Is Just Like Basketball


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External VS. Internal Focus In Dating


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You Are Ivy League

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Weeds In The Dating Garden

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Planting Seeds In Dating


6 days of dating metaphors! 

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3 Tips For Experiencing Less Anxiety In Dating And Relationships


In this video, I'll be sharing 3 Tips For Experiencing Less Anxiety In Dating And Relationships! 

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The 5 Skills Of Dating


In this short video, I'll be taking you through an exercise to discover your unique dating strengths and "areas of potential" (aka weaknesses haha). 

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Copy & Paste Texts For When He Is Pulling Away Or Acting Flaky

Everything you need to know.