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What If Future You Already Created the Relationship?

Uncategorized Feb 19, 2023

What if your future self already created the result that you want and you’re just figuring out how she did it?

Holding this belief brings a whole different energy to our pursuit of goals.

Imagine yourself in the relationship that you want to create.

Imagine the kind of person you’re with and the quality of the connection the two of you have.

Imagine what it feels like.

What if that is an actual point in the future that you are heading towards?

When we don’t approach our goals with the belief that we will create what we want, we start feeling frustrated with the process.

We take action toward our goal by going on dates and trying to pursue a relationship, but if we believe it might never happen for us, we start feeling tired and burnt out really quickly 

Instead, we want approach it with the belief that it’s just a matter of time.

Future me already evolved, learned, and created it.

All I have to do is figure out the next step.

But we don’t want to think, “It will just happen when it happens,” and take a passive stance.

It’s really unlikely that we will create an extraordinary relationship without learning anything about relationships, improving our communication, or working on any blocks that we have within ourselves.

It’s not something that just happens, it’s something that we get to create.

We can trust that we will create it when we take steps toward it every day with the belief that it’s already done.


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This content was originally published on the Women's Dating and Confidence Podcast. Listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify


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